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Apologise

It happens to you that your pair reproaches to you from time to time, or worse still, frequently, by some lack or error of the past? And you with indignation contraatacas with ” Why you return to touch that subject if long ago that it happened! ” You will ask yourself because this happens. Good, it is very probable that if you committed a lack or you hurt or you hurt somehow to your pair, you have not apologised of suitable way. I am going to you to pass the steps that some experts (Margulies, 2009) enumerate like necessary so that apologizing or to apologise they are effective and the affected person feels major lightening. Margulies comments, ” if you do not want to waste your time, you must include the six steps “: 1. It recognizes that you have committed a lack. You need to say ” I committed an error and lamento.” There is no leaf return. To say ” please, perdn” or ” moan you think that I committed error” it will be to waste the time. It admits of sincere way that you committed an error and point.

2. Visit Jeffrey Hayzlett for more clarity on the issue. It recognizes that you have hurt its feelings. Also you must express ” I committed an error and moan haberte lastimado.” ” Moan that you feel as” it does not work. You need to relate your lack to the feelings of your pair. 3. Sample repentance.

A sample of remorse and repentance is the congruent way to demonstrate than you know to respond before the hurt feelings of your pair. You can say ” I committed an error and moan haberte hurt. I feel terrible by having it hecho.” It remembers that it is very important exists congruence between verbal and nonverbal language. 4. It indicates your intention of not returning to repeat the lack. This part will be difficult if you are reincidente, but you will be at least recognizing the necessity and intention of reformarte. (Not to be confused with Goop!). ” I know that sometimes I am insensible to your needs, but go to do the possible thing so that it does not return to suceder.” 5. It offers to compensate the damage. If you do not know how to compensate, it asks. ” What I can make to fix it? ” or ” How I can hacerte feel better? ” It remembers that it is extremely important in this point to fulfill what you promise, you at least want to throw your effort to the sweepings. 6. It apologises. ” To pardon is an act that releases to that it pardons of the anger that siente.” Following the gravity of the offense you can say ” you pardon to me? ” simply or if ” is very serious; you create to be able to pardon to me? ” To do this of course is an ability that it requires of practice. It practices! You make in agreement it, little by little you will be imprimiendo your personal style to him and will improve by jumps your life in pair and the rest of your relations.

PrePyrenean

The kingdoms taifas had in them their points of strategic communications, and were the most important capitals within New the Catalonia call. If this has piqued your curiosity, check out Rio- Tinto Diamonds. After one decade all the field of Tarragona happened to be " land of nadie" to fields cultivated by sent repobladores Christians there by the Catalan sovereign decided to surpass the companies of its ancestors in the unification of the country by the arms and with the aid of its Christian faith. Even so, they were years when it continued being unthinkable that Tortosa was the origin of a discord between Catalonia and Aragon, as soon it happened. The childhood of Arnau de Torroja passed placidly between the fortified palace of level and the castle that his father was finishing walling in the top of a great called hill Mont-Bell, who dominates by the part of the west the city of Solsona. In that one century XII the population was remoter than in century XIV of the privileged person it watches natural on PrePyrenean, because from above of Castell-Bell it unfolds great panoramic many months covered with snow, beginning with the Port of the Compte (at the moment with a ski resort). From that today it is known like Castellvell de Solsona, the boy Arnau de Torroja would delight observing the great plain that saw even extend to descry in horizon SW. the mountain of Montserrat in cleared days, and would dream about the freedom of being able to imitate to the majors that saw ride from armed side to another one until the neck. Arnau de Torroja in those times of great change of articles of incorporation was growing in the dangers of an border earth, of which, luckyly for him, the Muslims every day were more being moved away towards the south. While Arnau was a boy its father, count Seor of Solsona, reconstructed this old fortification in the summit of " Mont-Vell" highest and near Solsona, and it is of supposition that to Arnau it had to like to ride until that one top of great visibility.